Yes, you read that right. Forgiveness really does have something to do
with how healthy you stay in the long term no matter where you live—whether
here in Chattanooga or all the way out on the west coast. You’ve
read our post about
smiling being good for your health, maybe? Well, it’s kind of like that.
Forgiveness can help you in lots of ways—it’s not just a nice
Bible theory you learned about in Sunday school at Calvary Chapel Chattanooga.
Let’s look at some of the ways forgiveness helps your heart, your
immune system, even your sleep.
Forgive from the Heart
It all comes down to blood pressure. Apparently anger spikes the heart
rate, and long-term anger—a grudge—will keep you tense on
a daily basis. In
this informative article, the author reports a
study finding that in married couples, when one forgave the other, both parties had a decrease in blood pressure.
It’s something you might find happening at the
Chattanooga Bible Institute counseling center.
this Johns Hopkins research article, Dr. Karen Swartz claims that “there is an enormous physical burden
to being hurt and disappointed.” Anger leads to stress, which always
taxes the heart muscle. It takes a lot of energy to stay angry—energy
that raises your blood pressure.
Avoid a Cold by Letting Go
This benefit of forgiveness may sound far fetched, but there is documented
evidence that forgiveness can actually boost the immune system. A
study working with HIV patients found that after forgiving someone who had hurt them, these patients had
higher CD4 cell percentages (considered positive for the immune system)
than those in the study who had not forgiven someone.
Are you fighting the flu this winter? Having a hard time keeping your nasal
passages clear? Rack your brain for someone you’ve been avoiding
and consciously choose to let go of your anger toward them. Chances are
your cold will clear up faster. And who doesn’t want that? (If not,
you might want to stop by the
Chattanooga Urgent Care!)
Sleep Like a Baby
Another desirable result of forgiveness is its positive effect on sleep.
The real benefit of forgiveness is on overall health, but if you think
about, this inevitably will lead to better sleep. When your stress levels
drop, you don’t lie awake at night trying to figure out how to control
the person you’re angry at, or trying to figure out how to fix your
This study found that when "the victim relinquishes ideas of revenge, and feels less
hostile, angry, or upset about the experiences," they are going to
feel better overall. Obviously you can sleep better without all those
bad feelings about people. If you struggle to fall asleep and stay asleep,
the culprit might just be anger. Give forgiveness a try.
How do you forgive?
All these benefits of forgiveness sound nice, but how does one perform
such an act when you feel that justice needs to be served? You can take
like in this article, but mostly you’re going to have to work through your negative emotions.
Grab a neutral friend and talk it out. You could even book a session at the
Chattanooga Counseling and Meditation Center. You might try making forgiveness a New Year’s resolution—and
then a daily habit!
What are your forgiveness tips? Do you have a relationship that you have
to maintain a running “forgiveness tab” so that things don’t
get too tense? Tell us about it! Our readers would love to hear.